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Monday, November 24, 2008

A book about God-incidences!!!

You might like this for someone who needs inspiration this Holiday season.

It Happened By Design » Blog Archive » It Happened By Design arrives at Amazon!: "I’m delighted to introduce my latest book, “It Happened By Design“, a series of God-incidence stories at Amazon.com. This is a compilation of stories by 30 authors of real-life events that have that element of divine intervention. A demonstration each case that God really does care what takes place in our lives and does simple things like help us find something that’s missing, right through to saving someone’s life."

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Yesterday's Tomorrow - Recovery Meditations For Hard Cases - Alcoholics Anonymous Books - Recovery, Addiction, & 12 Step Program Gifts

I like this idea in a meditation book!!!!!! Usually I only "highlight" my books but this is a great idea---

Yesterday's Tomorrow - Recovery Meditations For Hard Cases - Alcoholics Anonymous Books - Recovery, Addiction, & 12 Step Program Gifts: "Yesterday's Tomorrow - Recovery Meditations For Hard Cases - Alcoholics Anonymous Books
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At last, a meditation book that shows why and, more importantly, how recovery works written in no-nonsense language by a 'hard case' who's been there -- and been there, and been there. Barry L. has been clean and sober for more than 14 years, but there was a time when his multiple trips through relapse, detox, and treatment made sobriety seem an impossibility."

Sunday, November 9, 2008

a few slogans from this blog

~*~AA Step Eleven~*~: 11/2/08 - 11/9/08: "Thought to Consider . . .

Take a walk with God. He will meet you at the Steps.
* * *

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F A I T H = Fantastic Adventures In Trusting Him."

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Sobriety.TV | SOBRIETY TV Addiction recovery videos and movies

as good as slogans or better--check it out!!!!

Sobriety.TV | SOBRIETY TV Addiction recovery videos and movies: "Welcome! Thanks for visiting SOBRIETY TV! On our website, you can view hundreds of free movies about addiction recovery. Whether you are new to recovery or a veteran of sobriety, you will enjoy our beautiful films!"

101 Helpful Tips on How to Stay Clean and Sober

Here's a great site--they have a free book to download on how to stay sober. I haven't read the book, but will and get back to you!

101 Helpful Tips on How to Stay Clean and Sober: "1. Don’t underestimate your disease. Every single person does at first.

2. Take care of yourself spiritually. Be mindful of your connection to your higher power today.

3. Ignore the dismal relapse rates. You are creating your own success.

4. Make a zero tolerance policy with yourself concerning relapse. Don’t even allow your mind to go there.

5. Avoid fundamentalism, even in recovery. Rigid thinking and dogma can undermine your sobriety.

6. You are creating a life of recovery and you are responsible for ALL OF IT. Yes, others can help you. Their “help” is mere advice. It is up to you to recover."

Saturday, October 11, 2008

~~AA Step Eleven~~:

I love this site and their postings--

~*~AA Step Eleven~*~: 10/5/08 - 10/12/08: "AACRONYMS*~*~*
S P O N S O R = Sober Person Offering Newcomer Support Of Recovery.

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Under All Conditions
From: 'The Acid Test'

As we work the first nine Steps, we prepare ourselves for the adventure of a new life. But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our AA way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or foul. Then comes the acid test: can we stay sober, keep in emotional balance, and live to good purpose under all conditions?"

Friday, October 3, 2008

~~AA Step Eleven~~: 9/28/08 - 10/5/08

Such a colorful site and full of great slogan and good recovery thoughts!!! Go get a lift!

~*~AA Step Eleven~*~: 9/28/08 - 10/5/08: "Thought to Consider . . .

It is the highest form of self-respect to admit mistakes
and to make amends for them.

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
H O W = Honest, Open, and Willing

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Hang Together Forever"

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WHERE DO SLOGAN'S COME FROM?

Traditionally, armies used rallying cries and military mottoes to mobilize troops and overcome the often paralyzing fear of the enemy. These war whoops usually had religious overtones and were designed to capture their troop’s commitment, not unlike encouraging a newcomer’s commitment to recovery. Today, those battle cries survive in what we call slogans, which originate from the Gaelic word sluagh-ghairm, translated as war cry.

WAR CRIES

Getting clean and sober often feels like war. War against a disease. Although we eventually learn to cease fighting anyone or anything, in the beginning we battle a ferocious enemy: the compulsion, obsession, and jonesing to pick up just one more time. To confront this fierce enemy, the old-timers gave us a very powerful tool in slogans, which often goes unrecognized. Most members, if we are honest, have grumbled at one time or another about the constant repetition of “mindless” sayings. Yet slogans, even if irksome, are a powerful way to reach the suffering alcoholic.

Slogans and Service Go Hand in Hand

Even if the twelve-step war cries don’t get the respect they deserve, slogans and service go hand in hand. We hear slogans are “simplistic” and “bumper sticker recovery.” All the same, old-timers and newcomers alike walk into meetings and Alano clubs everyday, walls bedecked in the classics: First Things First; Live and Let Live; Easy Does It.

Our slogan’s convey messages. They are brief, memorable and can capture our attention quickly. Whether begrudgingly or gleefully, we repeat a handful of these sayings meeting after meeting hoping to penetrate the resistant skull of the newcomer.

Practice for our Brains

Brain research tells us repetition is the most basic technique for learning. You know, the “practice makes perfect” kind of thing. So while it may be frustrating to hear, Keep coming back; it works if you work it after every meeting, that simple phrase is burning its way into the consciousness of the newcomer, slipper, depressed and forgetful. That war cry means that some alkie will get up in the morning and hear the enemy’s cry of “Just one won’t hurt,” and they’ll use their counter cry, “Keep coming back.”

Because you chanted the war whoop with them at the meeting yesterday, you are more likely to see them back in the room today, despite the presence of the enemy.

As I approach half a century drug and alcohol free, my brain circuits have healed, where once they were fried. When people shared around the tables, my mind dawdled between meeting thoughts. How would the rent get paid; could I take those pain meds after getting my wisdom teeth pulled; should I tell the group I dreamed about taking speed last night? Hmm, what did that guy say? Focus. Focus. Finally, something actually made it into my head, Learn to listen and listen to learn. Wow. I knew I wasn’t listening and also knew I wanted to. I could learn to listen and would listen to learn. That war cry gave me the strength to try harder.

In early recovery, my mother and I attended a meeting in San Pedro down by the docks. (Mom brought me to my first meeting and at this time we only had a few weeks each.) A huge display rack showcased hundreds of little cards with various slogans on them—free for the taking. Selecting which one we wanted to represent our innermost self was serious business back then. I chose several that had meaning for me while Mom deliberated a bit longer. Finally, she picked her perfect message: Be Humble and You Will Not Stumble. In later sobriety, we often remembered that slogan and laughed heartily, finding it all the funnier because at the time it seemed so profound.

Slogans Save Lives

Slogans are our method of capturing clean and sober insights in a compressed form. They are our weapons against the inner addict/alcoholic, the little itty bitty shitty committee upstairs, and the ever present disease doing push-ups in the parking lot while we attend meetings. For alcoholics and addicts who have a rough time focusing in early recovery, slogans save lives, literally. They are the Swiss army knives of the Twelve Steps. Give slogans their due respect when working with others for they remain the War Cries in the battle for recovery.